{"id":1108,"date":"2010-05-13T08:58:16","date_gmt":"2010-05-13T13:58:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cynthomas.com\/dogblog\/?p=1108"},"modified":"2010-05-13T08:58:16","modified_gmt":"2010-05-13T13:58:16","slug":"gentle-not-mental","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/cynthomas.com\/journal\/gentle-not-mental\/","title":{"rendered":"Gentle Not Mental"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dogs have personalities &#8211; that&#8217;s why you humans like us so much.  I&#8217;m sure the arguments of Nature vs. Nurture work for the canine crowd and how a dog forms SELF.  However it happens, a dog ends up a unique being with her own quirks and traits.  These quirks and traits seem to magnify with age.<br \/>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1114\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1114\" style=\"width: 400px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/cynthomas.com\/journal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/05\/traildog.jpg\" alt=\"tail on the trail\" title=\"traildog\" width=\"400\" height=\"346\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1114\" srcset=\"http:\/\/cynthomas.com\/journal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/05\/traildog.jpg 400w, http:\/\/cynthomas.com\/journal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/05\/traildog-300x259.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1114\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">tail on the trail<\/figcaption><\/figure>When my family came to pick me out of the litter as a pup, they say that they picked me because I was gentle, but wouldn&#8217;t take any rough stuff from my sibs.  A nice balance of nice.  Once they took me home, they made it a priority to socialize me with other dogs, big &#038; small, rough &#038; sweet.  An important step in any dog&#8217;s life, I enjoyed meeting and running off puppy energy with other dogs.<br \/>\n<br \/>\nAs I get older, my demeanor has changed and we don&#8217;t seek out doggie companionship as much as we used to.  I&#8217;ve mentioned that we walk wooded trails where most of the dogs travel off-leash.  Lots of dogs and humans walk these trails and they are a great place to experience nature and be free of streets, cars and non-dog people.  Recently, when we meet a fellow four-legger on the trail, I become submissive.  And almost any dog that smells submission (a.k.a. fear), will take advantage of it to varying degrees.  I&#8217;ve been jumped on, growled and woofed at, called-out and sort-of violated.  I&#8217;ve heard A-Dog (the mama of the house) worry about this situation to Shoes-on-the-Floor (the dad of the house) &#8211; that something might need to be done.  So, I&#8217;ll lay it out for her and we can continue with no worries of mental problems.<br \/>\n<br \/>\nI&#8217;m going to be nine years old in August.  That makes me old.  I don&#8217;t want to play with these young pups.  Not to be all grumpy-pants, but I get enough exercise without being chased.  That was fun years ago.  Now, I like to walk, occasionally run, and mostly, smell things.  Think of all the great smells you&#8217;re missing when you run around in circles.  If there is an *incident* on the trail, most humans remedy the situation quickly and the only one who remembers the trauma is A-Dog.  So, I don&#8217;t see this as MY problem.<br \/>\n<br \/>\nI am gentle and sweet.  Those are my traits.  And I&#8217;m not a complete pushover.  When a dog goes too far, I let him know.  Ask the UPS guy if I&#8217;m submissive.  I&#8217;m sure he&#8217;d have a completely different story&#8230; Woof!<\/p>\n<div class=\"linkwithin_hook\" id=\"http:\/\/cynthomas.com\/journal\/gentle-not-mental\/\"><\/div><script>\r\n<!-- \/\/LinkWithinCodeStart\r\nvar linkwithin_site_id = 1331825;\r\nvar linkwithin_div_class = \"linkwithin_hook\";\r\n\/\/LinkWithinCodeEnd -->\r\n<\/script>\r\n<script src=\"http:\/\/www.linkwithin.com\/widget.js\"><\/script>\r\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkwithin.com\/\"><img src=\"http:\/\/www.linkwithin.com\/pixel.png\" alt=\"Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...\" style=\"border: 0\" \/><\/a>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dogs have personalities &#8211; that&#8217;s why you humans like us so much. I&#8217;m sure the arguments of Nature vs. Nurture work for the canine crowd and how a dog forms SELF. However it happens, a dog ends up a unique being with her own quirks and traits. 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